I’m feeling better but still a little tender in the stomach where the incisions are healing. Today I’m not resting because I have to be on campus for our internship introduction but I’m thankful that I can sit in a classroom and not have to be too active. More details on the internship in Friday’s blogpost so stay tuned. Please pray for me this week as I’m pretty busy but still in recovery mode. In the meantime, here are some pictures from last Thursday’s pre-surgery outing.For various reasons we haven’t been hiking for awhile so hiking and another national park seemed like the right pre-surgery activity. We drove about an hour to visit Serpentine National Park and parked using our WA Park Pass. We were greeted almost right away by two kangaroos enjoying their breakfast in the picnic area. And we were happy to see monarch butterflies as well. The three hour hike only took us an hour and a half but it was still enjoyable and the views were lovely.
When we went back to check out the swimming hole again, we found even more kangaroos that hopped away before we could snap a picture. I’m sure the novelty will wear off eventually but it’s still fun to see kangaroos just hanging around. This park was a sweet little gem and we are looking forward to heading back for the longer hike as well as swimming when the weather warms up again.
Ryan came home yesterday from his weekend trip to Darwin. I’m thankful he had this opportunity and I’m thankful for the future possibilities that were explored. But mostly I’m thankful to have him home. It’s him being away that has inspired this edition of Why I Love My Husband (Click here to check out Reason #82).
#83- I miss him when he’s gone. I know I love him because of how much I miss him. I miss him because of who he is but also because of what we have together. As often as we fight or misunderstand each other, we laugh and encourage each other more. When he’s gone, I miss all the little moments that happen throughout the day that make our life together special and unique to us.#84- I love him because he brings me breakfast in bed. As I type this I have an empty bowl next to me. I don’t remember how it started and it isn’t every morning but many mornings, Ryan brings me my usual. Greek yogurt, two Weetbix and a drizzle of local honey. It’s a nice way to start my day.
#85- His kisses. When Ryan is gone, we talk on the phone before bed. We catch up, swap stories and relax a bit before saying goodnight. Over the phone you can tell someone you love them and they can hear that in your voice. However, the phone is not a good conduit for sending kisses. I love my husband’s kisses and I love being kissed each day we are together. It takes him being away to remind me how special those kisses really are.
Last Thursday Ryan and I splurged a little to enjoy a fancy meal (thanks to Groupon) and a show. We dressed up and headed out on the town. We don’t have a full length mirror up in our place but we do have a short ride down the elevator in our building with mirrored walls:-) I love that I can wear tall heals and I still look short next to Ryan.Ryan has never attended Cirque du Soleil before so when we heard it was in town, we jumped at the chance to see Kooza. We see the tents that are set up every time we drive to or from Brookton so it feels like the circus really did come to town. This was a fun show with lots of showmanship along with crazy acrobatic stunts. I’d encourage you to watch the video on their website. It will give you a little taste of what we saw.Thanks to an online promo code and Ryan’s searching, we had great seats. This is a picture I took during the pre-show before they turned down the lights. We were close enough to the stage to see expressions but far enough away to not be caught in the crazy antics. During the show a few people were brought up on stage to be a part of the performance and I was just fine being an audience member only.
I’m thankful for the ability to enjoy an extra special date night every once in awhile. Time for Ryan and I to just be together and enjoy each other’s company. It’s also nice to see something fun and different, taking advantage of the wonderful things Perth has to offer.
Holidays like Mother’s Day are always difficult from the other side of the world. For the past few years, I have been extra thankful for the series of photos that were taken of my mom and Ryan’s mom helping to lace up my dress for my wedding. Because they live in different states, our mothers haven’t had a lot of time together which makes this moment before our wedding even more special. They worked together to bless us on that beautiful February day.However, that’s just one event out of too many to remember or even count over the course of both our lives. But that’s in my mind what motherhood is about in so many ways. All the moments, big and small that add up to raising a child. And even though we’re on the other side of the world, we still recognize that our mothers have done (and still do!) amazing things to love and support us. So thank you mom and Ryan’s mom too!
I thought this article posted by a friend, A Tribute to Mothers Who Send Their Children Into Mission, is an appropriate tribute for Mother’s Day. We love you both!
This edition contains just one reason because although I do love it, it also drives me crazy. Maybe I’m the only one but I do find that sometimes the things I love the most about my husband are the things that can most easily get under my skin. Maybe I just need to be a little more ok with things not being serious sometimes. So here it is, reason #82 why I love my husband- He loves to be silly.In case you didn’t know, it’s autumn here in Australia. Not fall, autumn. And my silly husband decided to stop by the side of the road to play in the leaves yesterday. Truthfully, it’s still mostly green here with palm trees and lots of other verdant vegetation. But there are pockets of areas with trees that are turning colors and shedding their leaves. I think if we had a little more time, Ryan would have ended up jumping into and perhaps even napping in a big pile of leaves. This Wisconsin boy loves the seasons.Anyone else do the dishes like this? Nothing like a saucepan guitar jam to 80s music. My silly husband loves to make a game out of everything, which includes joyfully doing the dishes thanks to the help of music and a little imagination.
So there you have it, nothing surprising to those of you who know Ryan well and for everyone else, another little insight into why I love him but also roll my eyes at him. For more reasons why I love Ryan, check out these previous Why I Love My Husband (Reasons #78-#81 and Reasons #75-#77) posts.
Just because I haven’t posted an update to this list since November (Reasons #75-#77 Why I Love My Husband) doesn’t mean that I’ve stopped loving this guy. But I’ve recently been reflecting on how amazing Ryan is especially when, during a Social Work class, we’re given a list of ways that true love typically manifests itself and Ryan hits all 4 main points. So this post is dedicated to us falling more in love with each other, falling in love with Perth city and being thankful that I see signs of a healthy functioning relationship. #78- Ryan cares for me and for himself practically. I’m thankful for a husband who loves me not just with words but with tangible, practical, visible actions.#79- Ryan sees the good in me. I’m always blown away when I catch Ryan looking at me and I see something in his eyes that I don’t deserve in the best way possible. He sees what I bring to our relationship, he sees my potential, he sees my beauty and he doesn’t question it.#80- He forgives my errors. I don’t remember the last time we had a perfect day with no arguments, disagreements or harshly exchanged words. We aren’t by any means proud of this but it’s our reality. We’re working through it intentionally but forgiveness is crucial every step of the way.#81- He’s good at maintaining intimacy. Intimacy is way more than just sex, intimacy is all the little signals, touches, smiles and exchanges throughout the day. It can be a challenge to maintain this but Ryan is great at reaching out and doing the small things which keep us going strong.I am so thankful for my husband and all the reasons he gives me to love him each and every day.
*All the pictures in this post were taken outside the Royal Perth Hospital at Kirkman House which is a spot we regularly pass on the bus ride home. These cage swings hang from a tree known as the “Kissing Tree” because it’s where nurses would say goodbye to sweethearts before returning to Kirkman House where they were living as they worked at the hospital. In order to commemorate this spot someone hung these two people-sized birdcages complete with a heart and birds kissing on top which you can see in the second picture of Ryan by himself. Anyone can stop, swing and hang out in these cages which are especially lovely in the afternoon shade.